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[May. 17th, 2005|02:18 pm]
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I found out in January via the first responce pregnancy test that I was indeed pregnant. In early Febuary I got a blood test done at the hospital just to be 100% sure before I told my family. Everything was going well. I was eating healthy. My family was supportive and everything between me and the father was good. I was started on Pre Natal vitamins and was given an appointment for March 23 because I would then be just out of my first trimester.

Of course I was scared at first. But my mom and I figured everything out. We found a school I could go to so my child could recieve free daycare, ect. We found out how to get medical insurance for my baby. EVERYTHING.

FINALLY March 23 rolls around and what I thought would be the best day of my life turned out to be the worst. I got an ultra sound done. But no good picture. My baby looked small. So we were sent to get a stronger ultra sound done. Two hours later I was diagnosed with fetal demise. My doctor decided that since my body hadn't reacted yet and my baby was probably dead for two weeks already I should have a D & C surgery to prevent further complications. I did this and now in May about a month after my surgery I'm still trying to cope and figure out "What now".

I'm supposed to be 20 weeks and 2 days pregnant today. And it just seems like the worlds most horrible injustice that I am not.

I thought I'd share my story to start it all off.


[User Picture]From: therase
2005-05-23 06:11 am (UTC)
Good on you for starting a new community. I think that there certainly is a need for it.
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[User Picture]From: jennsbaby
2005-05-23 03:03 pm (UTC)
Nobody really seems interested. But then I also don't know where to post to find other girls.
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[User Picture]From: jennsbaby
2005-07-03 04:41 pm (UTC)
Good Luck, I'm also pregnant again. My appointment is still a few weeks away. I hope everything goes well for you. : )
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From: (Anonymous)
2008-08-26 05:39 am (UTC)


Recently I lost my beautiful baby girl due to the fact that some girls decided to ambush me over foolishness while i was pregnant. I was 9 months. I started bleeding heavily and got rushed to a hospital. She was born alive and only survived one day, the next day she died due to the injuries that was put on her while those girls ambushed me. I cry everyday, can't even get up in the mornings It's hard for me to go to school and focus. I have so much baby clothes hung up and shit, it's really hard.
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From: (Anonymous)
2010-03-08 12:45 am (UTC)

i didnt want the baby when i found out but missed it wen it was gone

hey i'm 19 and i found out the 17th of jan that i was pregnant. In that day i told my mom, boyfriend and two sisters that i was. He was just like wow this is a lot to handle but it was his third baby. me it was my first. my mother asked what did i want todo and considering i wanted to go to basic i wanted to get rid of it. So we scheduled it and she said come in two weeks on friday. well me and him went out that friday and i saw girls all in his face and that quick second i forgot i was pregnant. so i had a sip of my friend drink. Then i went home and cried the whole night. yea it was a mess and we was about to break up but he wanted to be with me and the baby. So i got over that then i was getting use to having a baby. then sunday came the 23rd of january i started to bleed so i went to the hospital. they said it was a threatened abortion but since it was so early i would run some tests/ they
ran the tests and found out that i had lost the baby and at the time it did not click. But when i got home i was crying the whole weekend. even though everyone says its not my fault i think it is because i was not soppose to be drinking and i changed my mind so much about having the abortion that god just took it from me. And now i see so many teens pregnant that it kind of make me sad because deep down i wanted that baby. I'm not ready to try again because i have to get over my first one to even have a second one. But i do miss the child i did not even knew
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